prayer for a coma friend

at 1 pm, my 'love' (wink2) and me went to hsnz to visit a friend known through a society we joined last year.
according to his family, he had an accident yesterday, late at night. and now he is in a profound state of unconsciousness a.k.a in coma. the doctor had injected him to make him in that state for two days in order to operate him to take the clotting blood out from his swollen brain. let's pray for his health.

Dear Allah,
You know my friend so much better than I do.
You know his sickness and the burden he carries.
You also know his heart.
God, I ask you to be with my friend now, working in his life.
I believe you hear this earnest prayer from my heart and that it is powerful because of your promise.
I have faith in you to heal my friend, but I also trust in the plan you have for his life.
I ask that you look with mercy and grace toward my friend.
Nourish his spirit and soul in this time of suffering and comfort him with your presence.
Let my friend know you are there with him through this difficulty.
And may you be glorified in his life and also in mine and others as well.

Ameen..

Pegang Awek & Pegang Anjing

i came across this one site which emphasizes on this one sin many people might think that's nothing, but it does mean something. which is S.I.N. one thing leads to another as they used to say.

Cerita Antara Pegang Awek & Pegang Anjing

 
LEMBU: yo anjing! 'ssupp? macam ada yg tak kena je?
ANJING: Aku tengah tension nih. nak je aku gigit manusia tadi.
LEMBU : eh, asal?
ANJING: aku lalu tepi dua orang manusia lelaki dan perempuan yg sedang berkepit ni. Tetiba si lelaki terperanjat dan terus melompat dan berkata 'hoi anjing, pergi jauh-jauh, najis!'.
LEMBU: Ye, lah. Ko kan haram. Najis tahap berat bagi manusia. Biasalah tu.
ANJING: Kalau aku najis sekali pon, kalau dia tersentuh aku, boleh disamak. Yang dia sentuh dan raba-raba awek dia tu apa? Boleh ke nak samak dosa?
LEMBU: Betul tu. Memegang wanita yg bukan mahramnya tanpa ikatan yg sah, lebih dahsyat kenajisannya daripada memegang ko anjing, malah tak boleh suci sekalipun di samak.



Sedikit Penjelasan:

Daripada satu hadis yang diriwayatkan daripada Ibnu Majah menyatakan bahawa 'Bergomolan dengan babi (khinzir) itu adalah lebih baik berbanding dengan bersentuhan (secara sengaja)dengan wanita yang bukan mahram.'

Bersentuhan (dengan sengaja & apatah lagi bertujuan syahwat) adalah berdosa dan wajib bertaubat (bagi membersihkan dosa). Sedangkan menyentuh anjing tidaklah berdosa dan hanya perlu disuci (bukan bertaubat). Menyentuh anjing bukanlah satu kesalahan (dosa) atau maksiat. Tetapi, menyentuh wanita bukan mahram adalah berdosa dan merupakan maksiat.

Di dalam satu riwayat hadis yang lain yang maksudnya, 'Sesungguhnya kepala yang ditusuk dengan besi itu lebih baik daripada menyentuh kaum yang bukan sejenis yang tidak halal baginya.' (Riwayat At Tabrani dan Baihaqi)
sentuh...
Dulu, saya pelik, kenapa pegang tangan pun mesti dijadikan salah satu garis pandu untuk don'ts dalam couple. Bukankah pegang tangan sesama bukan muhrim itu haram, garis pandu untuk orang Islam, bukan hanya bila couple?

Itu asas pengetahuan dan pengamalan dalam Islam. Mudah saja. Jangan sentuh orang yang bukan muhrim. Jika garis pandu asas ini tidak dipatuhi dan suruhan Tuhan dizalimi, itu yang bermulanya benda-benda lain yang diluar kawalan kita.

Nabi pesan, sentuh kulit babi yang berdarah tu lebih baik daripada kita sentuh kulit orang yang bukan muhrim kita. Babi tu sehina-hina makhluk pada pandangan kita, orang Islam. Rupa-rupanya, ada lagi yang lebih hina daripada itu. Orang yang membiarkan dirinya disentuh oleh orang yang bukan muhrim lebih hina daripada babi.

Begitu juga dengan bangun subuh. Kalau orang yang masih berselimut walaupun dah dengar azan subuh, dia seperti menyelimuti dirinya dengan kulit babi.

'Heleh, bid'ah betul. Selimut, selimutlah. Kulit orang, kulit oranglah. Mana nak sama dengan kulit babi?'

Bendanya memang tak sama. Dosanya sama. Bukankah semua amalan, dosa dan pahalanya bergantung pada niat? 

Semuanya bergantung pada keyakinan kita pada Tuhan. Yakin, bukan setakat percaya. Kita semua percaya Tuhan itu ada. Tapi kita benar-benar yakinkah yang Tuhan itu ada? Kiranya iya, kita akan akui dan geruni segala kekuasaan-Nya. Kita akan turuti setiap kemahuannya dan tinggalkan larangan-Nya.

Kita akan ingat, walaupun hanya makwe/pakwe kita saja yang tahu apa yang kita buat, tapi Tuhan nampak dan tahu setiap sesuatu. Setiap daun yang gugur, dan setiap rasa dalam hati. Dia yang Maha Mengetahui. Dan Dia uji kita, ingatkah kita pada Dia?

dipetik drpd: tranungkite.net

guests = blessings

Alhamdulillah..

it's been one week my parents and my younger brothers and sisters are having their school holidays.
this means that there'll be another week left.

ohh i wish they have one month more holidays. cz i love it when i am in looong semester vacation and all my siblings are at home, like the last week when my younger brother who is studying in Subang came home with his 2 Sabahan friends. they just went back to kL few hours ago after a week holidays.

though we have to cook more than usual (in quantity and in recipe as well) and keep our house clean and neat (well, the guests are here, we have to keep our house in its best condition), we are happy cz we get to gather and be one complete family though it is for few days only. cz other than this time, there are only two other times in a year when we can have this; 'eidul-fitry and 'eidul-adha.

in an hour, there'll be one family of three children will come and sleep at our house, i am not sure yet for how many days. they are my father's relatives from Malacca. so we clean and change the mattress covers and the blankets, sweep the floor, preparing light supper for them, and etc.

sometimes i feel like i also want to have my foreigner a.k.a international friends to come at my house and get to know Terengganu and my family :)

the reason is simple.
it feels like a blessing when u have guest/s at your house.
some feelings we can explain them by words.
but some others are not.
like the feeling of blessing.
it can only be felt, hard to be explained.

Alhamdulillah..

suke :)

almost one month i've been in this one company for practicum.
which means that approximately one month i didn't update this space.

Alhamdulillah..
all the matters related to my internship have been eased by Allah
few days before starting it, i have a mixed feelings of excited, happy, worry and fear
cz it is a new thing for me

as time goes by,
i started to discover inch by inch the joy in this job

having superfunny + kindhearted + great + simply the best colleagues like
1. y (especially) - her superb sense of humour never fails to tickle my veins & her loyal friendship ties my heart to be closer to her in a very short time. actually during the second and third weeks, i faced quite a challenging episode in my life, not with the internship thingy, but with the other thing which is difficult to share with others but surprisingly i could share it with her. when i think that i would be alone went through it, she was there to comfort me in her own style. i really appreciate it, thank you from the bottom of my heart my dear mate. i wish u were my roommate + classmate.
2. sis z yg sisterly + motherly,
3. sis r yg rock n sporting,
4. bro h yg business-minded,
5. bro a yg fatherly,
6. boss yg perfectionist,
7. mr s & mr j who has helped me a lot - tq, may Allah bless u..
7. etc. there are over thirty five people in the office.
ohh i am counting blessings from God
again, Shukr lillah..

really2 happy spend weeks of my life with them

and up to the 4th week of the practicum,
i've learnt a lot of things
i wish i could have this longer, for three months if possible?
or if it is even a compulsory for 6 months, i won't mind at all

cz i simply enjoy doing this
which suits me (for this moment, but unsure for the future) as an outdoor person
i.e i prefer to not to being locked up in the office from 9-6 or 8-5
i love doing this cz i got to go to places and know people
various kinds of people whom i might not get the chance to do so if i were not in this area..

i've been to places my feet never step into
i've added maps of roads and places in the city into my mind
i could develop my communication and social skills with different communities
i learn and keep on learning the system - operation and magement in this field
i enjoy been given priority like getting the front seat and gifts in ceremonies i've attended to
and what-not
 
and now, starting by this sunday,
there are about three weeks left
which is equals to 14 working days
and weeks after that, new semester will begin

o Allah, pls help and guide me through the remaining days left for my practicum
and pls make my coming days better than the passing days
ameen..