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Tuesday, July 20, 2010

sedikit renungan dicelah kesibukan

Dalam suatu pertemuan iblis, syaitan dan jin, dikatakan:

"kita tidak dapat melarang kaum muslim ke Masjid, kita tidak dapat melarang mereka membaca Al-Qur'an dan mencari kebenaran, bahkan kita tidak dapat melarang mereka mendekatkan diri dengan Tuhan mereka Allah dan Pembawa risalahNya Muhammad, pada saat mereka melakukan hubungan dengan Allah, maka kekuatan kita akan lumpuh."

"Oleh sebab itu, biarkanlah mereka pergi ke Masjid; biarkan mereka tetap melakukan kesukaan mereka, TETAPI CURI WAKTU MEREKA, sehingga Mereka tidak lagi punya waktu untuk lebih mendekatkan diri kepada Allah".

"Inilah yang akan kita lakukan," kata iblis.

"Alihkan perhatian mereka dari usaha meningkatkan kedekatannya kepada Allah dan awasi terus kegiatannya sepanjang hari!". 

"Bagaimana kami melakukannya?" tanya para hadirin yaitu iblis, syaitan, dan jin.

"Sibukkan mereka dengan hal-hal yang tidak penting dalam kehidupan mereka, dan ciptakan tipudaya untuk menyibukkan fikiran mereka," jawab sang iblis. Rayu mereka agar suka BELANJA, BELANJA DAN BELANJA SERTA BERHUTANG, BERHUTANG DAN BERHUTANG."

"Pujuk para isteri untuk bekerja di luar rumah sepanjang hari dan para suami bekerja 6 hingga 7 hari dalam seminggu, 10 - 12 jam seminggu, sehingga mereka merasa bahawa hidup ini sangat kosong. Jangan biarkan mereka menghabiskan waktu bersama anak-anak mereka."

"Jika keluarga mereka mulai tidak harmoni, maka mereka akan merasa bahwa rumah bukanlah tempat mereka melepaskan lelah bila pulang dari bekerja. Dorong terus cara berfikir seperti itu sehingga mereka tidak merasa adanya ketenangan di rumah."

"Hasut mereka untuk membunyikan radio atau kaset selama mereka berkenderaan. Dorong mereka untuk menonton TV, VCD, CD dan PC di rumah. Sepanjang hari. Bunyikan muzik terus menerus di semua restoran mahupun pusat membeli-belah di dunia ini."

"Hal ini akan mempengaruhi fikiran mereka dan merosak hubungan mereka dengan Allah dan RasulNya"

"Penuhi meja-meja rumah mereka dengan majalah-majalah dan tabloid". "Sajikan mereka dengan berbagai berita dan gosip selama 24 jam sehari".

"Serang mereka dengan berbagai iklan-iklan di jalanan. Banjiri kotak surat mereka dengan informasi tak berguna, katalog-katalog, undian-undian, tawaran-tawaran dari berbagai macam iklan.

"Muatkan gambaran wanita yang cantik itu adalah yang berbadan langsing dan berkulit mulus di majalah dan TV, untuk menggoda para suami hingga mereka terfikir bahwa PENAMPILAN itu menjadi unsur terpenting, sehingga membuat para suami tidak tertarik lagi pada isteri-isteri mereka"

"Buatlah para isteri menjadi sangat letih pada malam hari, buatlah mereka sering sakit kepala".

"Jika para isteri tidak memberikan cinta yang diinginkan sang suami, maka akan mulai mencari hiburan di luar. Hal inilah yang akan mempercepatkan retaknya sesebuah keluarga"

"Terbitkan buku-buku cerita untuk mengalihkan kesempatan mereka untuk mengajarkan anak-anak mereka akan makna dan kepentingan bersolat."

"Sibukkan mereka sehingga tidak lagi punya waktu untuk mengkaji bagaimana Allah menciptakan alam semesta. Arahkan mereka ke tempat-tempat hiburan, fitness, konsert2, panggung2 wayang dan pusat2 yang melekakan"

"Buatlah mereka menjadi SIBUK, SIBUK DAN SIBUK. Perhatikan, jika mereka jumpa dengan orang soleh, bisikkan gosip-gosip dan percakapan tidak berfaedah, sehingga percakapan mereka tidak mendatangkan apa-apa pahala sebaliknya berbuat dosa semata-mata."

"Isi kehidupan mereka dengan keindahan-keindahan semua yang akan membuat mereka tidak punya waktu untuk mengkaji kebesaran Allah. Dan dengan segera mereka akan merasa bahwa rezeki, kebaikan/kesihatan keluarga adalah merupakan hasil usahanya yang kuat (bukan atas izin Allah)."

"PASTI BERHASIL, PASTI BERHASIL. RENCANA YANG BAGUS." 
Iblis, syaitan dan jin kemudian pergi dengan penuh semangat melakukan tugas MEMBUAT MUSLIMS MENJADI LEBIH SIBUK, LEBIH KELAM KABUT, DAN SENTIASA HURU-HARA". 

"Dan hanya ada sedikit waktu saja untuk beribadat kepada Allah maha Pencipta."

"Tidak lagi punya waktu untuk bersilaturahim dan saling mengingatkan akan Allah dan RasulNya". 

APAKAH RENCANA IBLIS INI AKAN BERHASIL???
KITALAH YANG MENENTUKAN!!

Perkara Yang Akan Membuatkan Kita Susah

1. tidak sembahyang atau solat.
2. tidak membaca Bismillah ketika hendak makan.
3. makan atas pinggan yang terbalik.
4. memakai kasut atau sandal memulakan sebelah kiri.
5. menganggap ringan apa-apa yang terjatuh dalam hidangan makanan.
6. berwuduk' di tempat buang air besar atau air kecil.
7. suka bersandar pada pintu rumah.
8. suka duduk di atas tangga.
9. membiasakan diri mencuci tangan di dalam pinggan selepas makan.
10. membasuh tangan dengan tanah atau bekas tepung.
11. tidak membersihkan rumah.
12. membuang sampah atau menyapu dengan kain.
13. suka membersihkan rumah pada waktu malam.
14. suka tidur di atas muka.
15. membakar kulit bawang.
16. menjahit baju yang sedang dipakai.
17. mengelap muka dengan baju.
18. berdiri sambil bercekak pinggang.
19. tidur tidak memakai baju.
20. makan sebelum mandi hadas.
21. tergesa-gesa keluar dari masjid selepas menunaikan solat subuh
22. pergi ke pasar sebelum matahari terbit.
23. lambat pulang dari masjid.
24. doakan perkara yang tidak baik terhadap ibubapa dan anak-anak.
25. kebiasaan tidak menutup makanan yang dihidangkan.
26. suka memadam pelita dengan nafas.
27. membuang kutu kepala dalam keadaan hidup.
28. membasuh kaki dengan tangan kanan.
29. membuang air kecil pada air yang mengalir.
30. memakai seluar sambil berdiri.
31. memakai serban sambil duduk.
32. mandi junub di tempat buang air atau tempat najis.
33. makan dengan menggunakan dua jari.
34. berjalan di antara kambing.
35. berjalan di antara dua perempuan.
36. suka mempermainkan janggut.
37. suka meletakkan jari jemari tangan pada bahagian lutut.
38. meletakkan tapak tangan pada hidung.
39. suka menggigit kuku dengan mulut.
40. mendedahkan aurat di bawah sinaran matahari dan bulan.
41. mengadap kiblat ketika membuang air besar atau air kecil.
42. menguap ketika solat.
43. meludah di tempat buang air besar atau air kecil.

credited to: somebody's site tt i just came across

what the heart is longing for?

found this on someone's social site and it touches my heart:

aku prnah bertanya...
ape yg hati ingin kn?
dan hatiku mnjawab...
"dr mane kau dtg dan kemane kau akn pergi..
jika kau berterusan menyiksa aku maka kau terima lah balasan dr pcipta aku..
aku ditakdirkn untuk mu tp bkn untuk kau menyiksa diriku..."

i. m. possible

i remember years ago
someone told me I should take
caution when it comes to love
i did, i did
.....
....
tell them all i know now
shout it from the roof tops
write it on the sky line
all we had is gone now
...
...
tell them i was happy
and my heart is broken
all my scars are open
tell them what i hoped would be
impossible
...
...
falling out of love is hard
falling for betrayal is worst
broken trust and broken hearts
i know, i know

thinking all you need is there
building faith on love and words
empty promises will wear
i know, i know
...
...
i remember years ago
someone told me I should take
caution when it comes to love
i did..

                                          - shontelle


argh. 
when the memories knock on the head
the heart would feel an excruciating pain
feels like want to get back together
oh how i miss ...
should i, should not i?

oh Allah, strengthen my heart, pls..

Saturday, July 17, 2010

nunyte (goodnight)

confession of a sleep aficionado: i slept for more than half a day today.
off to bed at almost 3 and woke up for 7 mins for fajr prayer and continued till.. ehehe count it.
thought of going out this morning,
but the body needs the rest though the lust wants the other.

know what?
it feels soooo good after yearning for this long sleep since the whole last week.

as i grow older
i realised tt having enough sleep is very pivotal
therefore i'll be more concern of this starting from today

Friday, July 16, 2010

more hours pls..

yesterday,

ida, wawa and me went to au2 setiawangsa after my 3.30 pm class was cancelled.
and we came back to mahallah at 10.30 pm.
7 hours outing is not bad actually as long as weekday is concerned.

actually i prefer to go out during the weekend, so that we can have longer time to do more things together as we have less than 10 months before we graduated (inshaAllah).
but wawa is going home this weekend, so Thursday is the best choice that we had.

too lethargic, after having a 15 minutes shower, i decided not to go to bed before tasting the long-time-missed donuts. but after eating two, i thought that having them with a hot coffee is a good idea esp in a cold night like this. the temperature at night can get really cold esp when the dawn is approaching that this whole week, i really help my university or mahallah a lot in saving electricity by switching off the fan before going to bed, the thing that i've never done before. cz no matter how cold my previous rooms were, the fan was always on, with the least speed no is at 2.

i was overjoyed as we went to the garments section. guess why? the sale is on! loads of discounts are offered. most of them are 50% and 70% off.

oh myyyy.. the covetousness in me made me feel like buying tons of dresses and outfits here. but my reason tells me, dont get convinced by the lust! and thank God, i follow the latter. if not, hundreds will fly away in an hour of confusion in making decision. at first i thought of buying 7 dresses, but after thinking that iiu is going to have the convocation this semester whereby there will be a lot more varieties of clothes there, at last, i bought 2 only. the 'eid or raya puasa also is just around the corner, why not i save the money for that. he he.

then, having dinner at asam pedas melaka restaurant is the moment that i enjoyed the most as the asam pedas there was superb! i've ordered a spanish mackerel (tenggiri) spicy and sour and shrimp fried asparagus while for the drink, mine was oreo-vanilla ice blended. ida ordered fried beef with asam while wawa's order was daging salai masak lemak.

we shared each others' foods and drinks and by the time we finished our food (i don't know why every time i eat with my friends, i ended being the last to finish mine, am i too slow eating food or perhaps i chew it for 40 times before swallow it. well, my excuse ould be: i just following Prophet's practice :p), it's hard for me to walk fast since my stomach is almost full.

oh, i am so delighted.

terima kaseh Tuhan.
dan juga teman-teman.
saya sayang kamu2 semua.

regarding ruumz

Alhamdulillaah..
that's the only word i could utter for all the blessings He showers upon me all this while after series of tests.

my new room and new roommates are the first things that pleased me for this new semester. 4 years of living in this campus, i think this year is the best in terms of matters related to room.

thank God for giving me the room in the second level, which means i don't have to use stairs (2nd level is the ground level at my block, since the 1st level is located underground) after climbing up nusaibah stairs (a.k.a batu caves stairs, which in total has 122 steps). in my first year, i was given a compartment in the top level (5th). the level then decreases by years (3rd yr: level 4 while 2nd year: 3rd level). don't expect me to be slimmer cz of the stairs that i've encountered for three years before cz by the time we reached our room, we tend to eat more. hence, the stomach never get a chance to rest, unless during the fasting month.

ok, back to the roommate thingy.
at first i'm quite worried cz i don't know who'll be my 2 other roommates (i just knew 1, and i'm glad for who she is). the things that worry me is if i get foreigners. not cz i'm choosy or being racist or any negative terms you could throw to me. but it is cz i've heard and SEEN (remember, i rarely based my judgment on hearsays) my friends who have been given ones before. though i know that i shouldn't come to conclusion promptly, but seeing my friend who suffered before is enough to make my adrenaline runs abnormally few days before the room registration.

this is the thing that traumatised me. she got two international a.k.a foreigners roommates who one of them has her own hookah pipe in the room (how dependent her life is on that instrument) and smoking shisha almost 24/7. everytime i pass her room (which is just few doors from mine), all that i can smell is the shisha flavour that her roommate cannot be separated from. most of the time, it's strawberry smell, which is not nice at all cz it's the tobacco smell not the real fresh strawberry.

and the things that made me feel sorry for her the most is that she has to wash her towel everyday cz it absorbs the shisha smell and she hated it. the same goes to her clothes. she has to keep them tight in the cupboard and she has to get out of the room as early as possible to attend classes before her roommate wake up and started to smoke, so that her dress to the class for that day would not get spoiled by that tobacco smell. not only that, they are also frequently cooking stuffs in the room, which again, created smell which is not favoured by their roommates cz the smell is trapped in the room. they couldn't open the window cz the monkeys are waiting for the right moment to jump in, especially upon smelling the dishes that they are cooking.

i've asked her to report to the mahallah (ak.a hostel) office, and she said she had, but that still couldn't solve the problem, cz... (i can't tell it here). then i suggest her to change the room. only then her life gets better.

actually i really dont mind at all to befriend or even be roommates with the foreigners. cz i like to know different cultures and languages and what-not. but when there is no consideration and toleration in living in a mini room with few windows and one door, then that's the root of the problems. as we all come from various walks of life and different cultures, we should respect each other if we care to live harmonically.

we, Malaysians (esp. the Malays) are peace-lover people. if u are kind to us, we could be the kindest people u've ever met. but if u're trying to be hostile with us, we will try to avoid it first. being the cruelest people u'll ever face is not our first choice. after all, we are all muslims, the brotherhood and sisterhood ties should not be broken by small matters. the unity of ummah should always be our priority right? this question needs no answer, by the way.